Master These 3 Conversations If You Want to Be Seen, Heard, and Promoted

Let’s talk about the kind of conversations that change careers.

Not the chit-chat at the coffee machine. Not the performative pleasantries in your Monday standup.

I’m talking about the real ones. The bold, intentional conversations that put your name in rooms you haven’t even walked into yet.

If you want to be seen as a leader (not just a doer), you can’t wait for someone to hand you visibility. You create it. And the fastest way to do that? How you speak, when you speak, and what you dare to speak about.

Here are three career conversations that move the needle — and how to approach them with confidence, strategy, and soul.

1. The “Growth Conversation” — aka: Let’s Talk About What’s Next

Here’s the truth: Most people don’t get promoted because they never clearly communicate that they want to be.

They wait. They hope. They work harder.

But visibility doesn’t come from effort alone. It comes from alignment — between what you want and what decision makers know about you.

So, how do you start the growth conversation?

Start by booking a 1:1 with your manager.

Don’t ambush them. Don’t wing it. Prepare.

Come in with clarity on your recent wins, your evolving skillset, and your vision for where you want to grow. You might say:

“I’ve been reflecting on how I want to grow here, and I’d love to get your perspective. I’m ready to take on more strategic responsibilities, and I want to make sure I’m aligning my work with what’s most valuable to the team.”

This does three things:

Keep it professional. But keep it real. Let them see that you’re not waiting to be picked. You’re already preparing.

2. The “Visibility Conversation” — aka: Here’s What I’ve Been Doing (and Why It Matters)

If you’re the type who “just lets the work speak for itself,” listen up. Your work doesn’t have a mouth. And even if it did, it’s probably whispering.

Visibility is not bragging. It’s bridging. You’re helping others connect the dots between what you do and the bigger picture.

Here’s how to bring visibility into regular convos:

Weekly updates: Don’t just list tasks. Share impact.

  “We launched the internal dashboard this week — it cut report turnaround time by 30%.”

Team meetings: When asked for updates, frame them as progress stories.

  “Last month I noticed a gap in our onboarding process. I created a checklist and so far it’s reduced confusion and helped the new hires ramp faster.”

Cross-functional chats: Be the person who *connects* teams. Share what you’re seeing and how it could help them.

Visibility isn’t loud. It’s clear. Make your value easy to see, hear, and remember.

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• Promotion asks
• Pay raise chats
• Career pivot conversations
• Networking guides
• Setting burnout boundaries at work
• Helping with leadership visibility pitches
• Also contains follow up guides and templates, so that it gets more tangible results, when you’re embarking on your career visibility journey.

3. The “What Do You Need From Me?” Conversation — aka: How to Build Power Through Partnership

Want to stand out?

Be the person who makes other people’s lives easier.

Every time you ask a colleague, a manager, or a cross-team lead, “What do you need from me right now?” — you’re building a reputation as someone who gets it. Who listens. Who leads without needing a title.

This question does three powerful things:

• Uncovers hidden pain points

• Shows emotional intelligence

• Builds trust like nothing else

And if you ask it consistently, guess what happens?

People remember you as the “go-to”. The problem-solver. The person who doesn’t just do their job, but makes the whole system work better.

That’s leadership. And leadership gets noticed.

But What If You’re Scared to Speak Up?

Maybe you’ve been burned before. Maybe you’re naturally quiet. Maybe you’re tired of not being heard.

I hear you. Speaking up can feel risky, especially if you’ve been overlooked, underestimated, or talked over.

But here’s the hard truth: Silence won’t save you from stagnation.

You don’t have to shout. You just have to start. Choose one conversation. One sentence. One bold ask.

Everyone needs a professional friend in their corner who helps them out with real-talk, deep insight and mentor-level strategy. And now? You have got one. Book a Free Career Clarity Call with me if you’d like some quick insight on how to initiate and navigate these tricky conversations and turn them into career stepping stones!

Let your career hear you this time.

Make These Conversations a Habit, Not a One-Off

Don’t wait until you’re frustrated. Don’t wait until your annual review.

Integrate these conversations into how you show up every month, not just when you’re ready to leave or already burned out.

This is how you shift from being managed to being in momentum.

It’s how you go from being seen as “helpful” to being seen as essential.

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Don’t wait for tomorrow to level up your career. Because someone else at your workplace may just decide to do it today.